Hey Pallavi
dont feel sad we have some plans that will help for you
try to show your passhion about travel show them thats it is your dream convience them that you can travel win theri trust
u will get permishion
Make a presentation about how people have excelled just by traveling, our parents don't resist but they want us to be secured. Tell them tge merits and demerits of travelling.
You don't have to convince them. Be strong enough to do what you love. you don't need anyone's permission to tell you what you should do with your life.
Explain them that one day u'll be married like everyone else is and have to travel alone at some point of time, so let me take this opportunity earlier and you can share your experiences and blog them out.
Hi Pallavi, I understand your concern as being a girl parents are a bit skeptical as to how you will manage things and from safety point of view and other xyz reasons. I would suggest start touring with people whom your parents trust, like your cousins, close friends (whom they know very well), your office trips etc. Once you start going to trips they will develop a confidence in you that you can take care of yourself. While on trips be in constant touch with them, keep them up to date about your whereabouts. This shall be required to be done for initial 2-3 trips after that they will develop the confidence that you can manage alone and your work is done. Please remember things take time.
You plan for a trip with family and show them u are good organiser and very fond and knowledgeable about tripping.Try to grab faith from them and assured them though your smartness..Once you done well, Next trip i think they will not much force you to allow the trip...Go first nearby 1-2 days trip and come with refreshed mind and smiley face..Tell all story about trip to them..Likewise try to build the trust..
Show them the adventures pictures and videos of your willing destiny . Make plans and budget . Try to add much friends you can trust , it will definitely rise your trip budget. Be responsible and stick to your plans. Ask people who visited there , tell your parents its safe for you to travel in such a place . Planning is the major part , if it is convincing then no one can stop you to travel. Be patience .Apna Time Aaega.
Try them to convince after showing some good female dominated movie and gain there trust on ur vision focus about ur future and character as well....this is enough for indian parents..ππ and dont make friends with benifit...
ur problem solution is in above lines...it will work..
Hiee pallavi π
As everyone knows parents canβt keep us in a box forever, nor should they want to. Eventually we will leave the nest and your parents should want you to be prepared. Ask them for the chance to better understand the world before you have to take it on by yourself.
Discuss your hobbies, choices and likes with your parents. Maybe they will allow you to travel because they also want to see you happy and a better version of yours. Thanks π
Show them the richness of our nature, they will love it. then they will understand your wishes. sometimes they are concerned for your safety, for that first of all go in group. second call them timely that you are all ok. and talk them about environment there how much you like it and how much happy you are. so they will be happy to allow you for your happiness. third if there is budget problem, travel and manage accordingly.
Try to explain to them why you want to travel and also share all the details with them about where you will be staying, who you are travelling with. Start by planning trips with your friends, and always get your friends also to convince parents! Usually works :)
Hey pallavi, it all depends on how effective u r in convincing your folks that u will be fine and can take care of yourself.. give them the confidence that u r an adult now and travel is important to u, and u will be safe... :) where u planned to travel anyway..?
cheers..
Vj.